Why do people act like calling someone stupid is more acceptable than calling them ugly?

2021.09.26 21:28 DamnKidd Why do people act like calling someone stupid is more acceptable than calling them ugly?

If someone at my work calls me stupid, no one cares. But as soon as I say “you are ugly” the workplace says “oh wow that’s fucked up”
I’m insecure about my level of intelligence. But just because most are not it means that it’s more acceptable to call someone stupid?
People tell me “oh just let it go it’s no big deal” but if I call someone ugly it’s “really was that necessary?”
Such a fucked up double standard
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2021.09.26 21:28 tenthandrose What kind of dragonfly is this? Florida.

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2021.09.26 21:28 TheManRW86 Yet another doppelgänger

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2021.09.26 21:28 LaketheManiac New Build Has Power, But No Display

Hello everyone, I have just somewhat completed my first build. However, I'm having some issues getting to the bios.
When I turn the pc on everything lights up, the fans are on and the mother board checks through everything without issue. However, I'm getting a no display error on my monitor.
Here's the specs: https://pcpartpicker.com/list/r2WLz7
My little brother is the pc building wiz and he can't figure out why it isn't working either so please help! (He also told me to let you know that it isn't doing a boot cycle.) I will be cross posting this to buildapc so ya, let me know what you guys think, and thank you for any help in advance!
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2021.09.26 21:28 remerdy1 ME AND F1LTHY YUH, IM GETTING FILTHY YUH

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2021.09.26 21:28 Correct-Layer-5210 Divorce or reconcile

Sorry for the long rant.
Hi, I'm a 34 male, married without kids immigrant (living in the US for eight years now).
Married 5 years. wife is 27.

We had always been pretty unhappy in our marriage for as far as I could remember. She was smart and attractive, but nothing I did was ever enough for her. There was almost no appreciation for what I did. For instance, I used to be the only one working for a few years, and then I came home and did the house chores while she only studied. Despite all that, she disrespected me quite a lot. I was constantly walking on eggshells around her. Anything could set her mood off, and god forbid that happened. Even if I ordered a different food than what she thought I should, she got mad. She got annoyed if I spoke to my friends over the phone.
I believed she had been emotionally abusing me over an extended period. She constantly put me down, called me all kinds of names when she got angry. She rejected 90% of my requests, from walking/bike outside together to my sexual asks. She only did what she felt like doing. The only behavior she took responsibility for was the anger management issue. She was not interested in hearing what bothered me in the relationship and told me to take it as-is or leave. We went to marriage counseling a lot, but nothing seemed to work. I was strongly suspecting something like narcissism. All I wanted was to be happy together, have kids, and raise a family, but she never cooperated with me. I have a tech job and a good income. I also helped her get a high-income job which she continually blamed me for it. She didn't think a woman should be working, and at the same time, she hated doing house chores and becoming pregnant. I felt like I was at the end of the rope and needed to let go of this marriage. However, the idea of divorce terrified me, especially as a 34 male immigrant middle eastern divorcee in the US. We're both agnostic. The last straw was her telling me she wanted a divorce (because I forgot to buy her ice cream) the night before I had a critical job interview. She never proceeded with a divorce after my interview. But I was seriously fucked up for the entire 6-hour long interview.

I finally gained the courage to ask for separation and told her we each needed to go and work on our issues with individual therapists. I told her we could reconcile if we felt like there was a chance for a healthy relationship. She replied by saying she wanted a divorce instead, to which I said "sure." One day later, she started asking me to give it another chance and telling me she loved me, etc. But I insisted on proceeding with separation.

After four months of separation, the bad memories have softened, and she is pretty cautious not to repeat the super toxic behaviors whenever we see each other.

I feel like I'm about to relapse into the relationship, and I cannot tell if it's the right decision or if this is a major mistake. I am hoping to use your collective wisdom here. Have you been in a similar situation? What do you recommend I do?
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2021.09.26 21:28 MasonP13 Monitor with a viper, at the zoo. Is this fine?????

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2021.09.26 21:28 PrisonChickenWing Which House in Harry Potter are most likely to have stoners?

Hufflepuff or Ravenclaw or Gryphendor (spelling?). I don't think slytherin would be advocating for mind altering substances
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2021.09.26 21:28 TwoAntir299 to summarize the addition of relic weapons in a flapjack meme

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2021.09.26 21:28 lalumanthena Looks stunning

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2021.09.26 21:28 Corgi__booty Danmei titles may have been removed from JJWXC top charts lists. Why we shouldn’t panic

JJWXC’s leaderboards appear to have changed. Most notably, the top 50 no longer has any danmei titles (where TGCF was previously #1). However, danmei titles themselves haven’t been removed from the platform.
While we can only speculate on why, and how much of it is an indicator for the future of danmei, let’s not rule out that this is a smart preemptive move on their part to protect danmei.
A lot of the recent government dialogue has been about the commercial success of these titles and the potential influence on youth. It’s not so much commentary on the content itself, but of the recent disproportionately high interest in the content. Sales and popularity charts and examples of high ranking danmei feed into the arguments that danmei is rising in popularity or is significant within the overall novel market.
Obviously, losing that discoverability is harmful to our authors in the sense they may lose potential new readers who are drawn in through those charts, but staying low key could be a really smart move to avoid something even harsher.
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2021.09.26 21:28 InTheMotherland [Meet Report] Tri-Cities Strongman Showdown 2021, MWM220

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2021.09.26 21:28 Alone_Bookkeeper_745 Thong Booty

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2021.09.26 21:28 lolerez1259 A&M is letting down its students with its unacceptable policy (and how you can help)

Like many others, I am a victim of A&M's horrible practices during this school year that is putting at risk students health. Unfortunately, despite the no cutting policy I saw atleast half a dozen people in the freshman with mealprep consisting of ground turkey (98% lean), lentils, brown rice, and cauliflower. All of that work to still look dyel. A&M needs to start enforcing the no cutting policy in the MSC or im revoking my tuition.
I call upon the student body and the students of A&M to start enforcing dyels to take the mandatory tren vaccine and double the super physiological tissue in their rear delts, non negotiable. The real pandemic is nattys.
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2021.09.26 21:28 RealCrusaderBro What the hell is r/enough_vaush_spam

So I'm cheking out okaybuddyvowsh and I see some crossposts from enough_vaush_spam, and I decide to check comments, to see what Vaush's detractors say. Well, everyone in that comment section was a tankie. Somebody legitimately defended the USSR in the post. How the fuck are these people real. Have they touched grass before?
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2021.09.26 21:28 Ikraaap Saw some nice cars in Brussels this weekend [Multi]

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2021.09.26 21:28 QueryRIT Do heaters of this style heat up the place nicely?

So I didn't really see heaters like these previously. I only saw the water ones. Do these get expensive? Do they heat up the place nicely? Thanks!
https://imgur.com/a/NsLrTLl (Pic of the heater)
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2021.09.26 21:28 Equivalent-Ad-7200 Anyone down to nut with me on ft? 28 male for anyone

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2021.09.26 21:28 Nmtpbc GPU and monitor compatibility

I'm considering building a pc with a GTX 1050 Ti and I currently have a monitor with HDMI, but I'm planning on later buying a better monitor.
The GPU however only has 1 HDMI port and 1 DVI port. I would later like to use my current monitor as a second monitor.
Does this mean I would only be able to buy a monitor with a DVI interface or could I just use an adapter?
If possible, would I have to do something software-related to make it work? Also would there be any consequences?
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2021.09.26 21:28 random78537 I'm so overwhelmed with school. I don't know what to do. I need advice, or just emotional support.

I don’t expect anyone to read this full thing, but I have to get it off my chest.
I feel completely helpless when I think about school. I’m currently in first year life sci taking four courses. Two of them I am somewhat enjoying but chm135 and mat135 are destroying my confidence. I have so much work to do. I struggle with the homework. I feel like I don’t belong here and I’m so scared for my first quizzes and tests. I always hear about how brutal they are, and if i'm struggling this much with the regular term homework, I don’t know how i'm gonna pass. I’ve been reviewing calculus and today I’m supposed to review for chemistry. But I'm losing motivation and hope. I feel too stupid for this. I don’t have time for all of this work. I don’t know how people do it. I don’t know how people handle this workload yet enjoy their life and I don’t know how they’re able to understand this content so easily. I do not plan on further pursuing chemistry or calculus, but these are prerequisites for some programs that I have my eye on.
I had high school math and chemistry during the pandemic when it was all online, meaning all of my resources were always available to me. Meaning, I don’t know how to do much. And I’ve been trying to review, but there’s only so much time in a day and I only have so much energy. I made a work schedule for the next week and it looks insane. I don’t know how to get through it. I take breaks, but when I do, it costs me sleep.
I don’t know what I want in life. But currently, I have to stay in school. My parents have already paid. Please don’t tell me to drop out or take a year-long break. I’m really struggling on not having much high school knowledge for chemistry and calculus and if I take any time off, I’ll be in an even worse place.
My parents have been very supportive towards me because they see that I’m always sitting at my study desk. They always tell me to keep my head up and that after four years I’ll feel happy that I was able to get through these tough years of studying. My sibling was also struggling in their first year at this school, but they pulled their life together and is now doing significantly better. They're so hardworking now and I have no idea how they balance it all.
I’m lucky to have a support system. But emotional support only goes so far. I still feel so alone. I know people care about me, but it doesn’t change my circumstances. I cry so easily nowadays. I’m actually crying while writing this. I was never this much of a crybaby before.
Uoft is a wake up call to adulthood. In order to do well, I have to work incredibly hard. I can't just do whatever I want anymore. And I haven’t found my passion yet. In this world, you gotta work. I don't really enjoy studying, but I hope to find my passion at university. I actually do have some interest in human bio/social science, but everyone calls those degrees useless :(
I can barely even do my chemistry and calculus homework. I’ve already had so many breakdowns. I’m having one as I write this. These letters look blurry through my tears.
I wish I was passionate in something. And I wish I was good at it. And I wish I could make good money from it. I know life is what I make of it, but I feel so lost with my life right now (everyone else always seems to be partying and having a good time and enjoying their program) that I don’t know HOW to make things better. I take it day by day, but these days are dragging on. I’ve cried so hard that I’ve almost thrown up. I just want to fast forward in my life to the good part. I feel so alone.
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2021.09.26 21:28 Li-MaryBotha I found out my sister in law is having an affair. I don't know what to do now that I know...

Today I found out that my sister in law has been secretly seeing a married co-worker almost 20 years older than her. I have been uncomfortable with her relationship with this man for a while, because even though she keeps saying they are just good friends, a lot of things still didn't add up for me regarding the way they conduct themselves. They often meet each other outside of work, only the two of them, and they will go have lunch together or go to the zoo together. They buy each other very expensive gifts and sometimes my sister would just dissappear for the whole day without very much explanation about where she was or what she was doing. I am now starting to think that she was seeing this man in secret during those times. Their behaviour just isn't normal behaviour for 'friends' or even co-workers for that matter. She is a 20 year old female and the man is a almost 40 year old married man. Such a relationship of theirs just isn't proper. I have been suspecting for a while now that there might be something more than just friendship between them. I confronted her and asked her what was going on between them, but obviously she denied everything and said that they were just friends and that she had no romantic interest in him. But today I overheard her talking on the phone with the man and unfortunately my worst fear came true. They are having an affair. We come from very strich Christian homes and she has always been a very innocent young girl with excellent morals and standards and a perfect example of what a young Christian girl should be like. We were raised in the Christian church and practice the religion faithfully so she knows very well what is right and what is wrong, and that having an affair with a married man is obviously considered a great sin. I never in a million years expected her to do such a thing. If our family were to find out about this, it would tear the whole family apart. I don't know what I should do because on the one hand I feel responsible, as an older member of the family, to confront her and to intervene before things go to far, but on the other hand I don't want to completely destroy my relationship with her as well as the relationship between her and our family. She is a young member of the family and therefore I feel responsible as her sister, as well as a devout Christian to intervene. I don't really want our family to find out because they will never be able to forgive her and the relationship would be permanently ruined. Currently it seems like me and my husband, her brother, are the only two that know about her affair. She doesn't know that we know though. I just feel sick to my stomach. What should I do?
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2021.09.26 21:28 basecamp42 If a squirrel lost its front limb would it be one armed or three legged?

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2021.09.26 21:28 _Rosseau_ Whatever Mod did this, I am so sorry João

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2021.09.26 21:28 claypuke with peace & love, i’m disappointed

with peace & love, the absolute LAST show i’d want h3 to make is a political one so i definitely won’t be tuning into this. hopefully it’ll keep political comments off of After Dark & Off the Rails & H3TV, at least. i watch youtube as an escape & for the lightheartedness that regular H3 content brings. i was hoping the cohost would be a fellow youtuber & that they’d chat about silly YT drama, similar to frenemies & families.
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2021.09.26 21:28 saksocukazim Beyler gruba atmalık trans olmadığı sıkı görene kadar anlasilmayan kız arıyorum nerde bulurum

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